Hayward Lee Gregg

Hayward Lee Gregg, affectionately known as "Pop" and to his close friends as "Seaweed," passed away peacefully at his home in New Castle, Delaware, on May 17, 2025, at the age of 86. Born on July 10, 1938, in Bybee, Tennessee, to Ruby (Metcalf) Gregg and Paul Gregg, Hayward’s legacy is defined by strength, service, and a deep devotion to his family, his country, and his faith. A proud United States Marine Corps veteran, Hayward lived a life marked by honor, courage, and commitment. After graduating from Parris Island, SC, he quickly rose to the rank of Sergeant, and in 1958, earned an undisclosed security clearance. He was transported to Italy aboard the USS Newport News, where he was stationed at NATO Headquarters in Naples. During his assignment, he was entrusted with the distinguished role of serving as personal security officer to Admiral Robert Briscoe, commander at Allied Forces Southern Europe & NATO — a role of deep trust and responsibility. One of the defining moments of his service came in February 1958, during the rescue mission of a downed United States Air Force DC-3 aircraft that crashed on Mount Vesuvius, carrying 16 service members. When initial rescue efforts were ordered to stand down due to a whiteout, Hayward persisted, determined to reach the downed crew. His actions reflected the bravery, selflessness, and unrelenting resolve that defined his military career. Following his military service, Hayward embarked on a successful 38-year career at General Motors, where his strong work ethic and leadership earned the respect and admiration of his colleagues. A proud and active member of the United Auto Workers Union, he served with distinction as a committeeman, representing and advocating for his fellow workers with integrity. Hayward was not only strong in character but also in body. As a competitive powerlifter, Hayward earned multiple championships, along with state and world records, while competing with the American Drug-Free Powerlifting Association — achievements that earned him elite status in the sport. He became a three-time Delaware Mr. Iron Man, a testament to his enduring discipline and passion for the sport. He was also a passionate motorcycle enthusiast. Hayward reveled in the freedom of long rides. One of his proudest moments was a solo trip to Alaska on his Harley at the age of 75. An unforgettable journey that exemplified his independence, adventurous spirit, and love for the open road. At the heart of Hayward’s life was his beloved family. He shared 61 wonderful years of marriage with his wife, Ottie Marie Gregg, and together, they built a loving home in New Castle. They raised five children, who were a constant source of pride and joy: Dean Lewis (predeceased), Denise Comer (Chad), Donna Oals (Mike), Paul Gregg (Kim), and Marie Gregg. He was a devoted grandfather and great-grandfather to many, leaving behind a legacy of love, wisdom, and quiet strength. Later in life, he found peace and joy in taking daily walks with his beloved dog, Colt — moments of quiet companionship that brought him comfort and connection. Hayward is lovingly remembered by his siblings: Jonah Gregg (Barbara), Paulette Derkach (Nestor), and Donald Gregg (Cathi), along with several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his sister, Jean Sullivan (John), his beloved son Dean, and his parents, Ruby and Paul Gregg. Hayward was a man of deep Christian faith, which served as the guiding force in how he lived, loved, and served. His beliefs were the quiet foundation of his life, shaping his values, his humility, and his kindness. He lived by the teachings of Christ — with hope, grace, and compassion. Though he is no longer with us, his spirit lives on — in every story shared, every lesson remembered, and every life touched by his. We take comfort in knowing he now rests in the eternal peace of the Lord he faithfully served. Goodbye, Pop. Thank you for everything. We will carry your love with us, always. Hayward will be laid to rest at the Delaware Veterans Cemetery and services will be private for the family. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to your charity of choice in Hayward’s memory.

Hayward Lee Gregg

July 10, 1938 - May 17, 2025

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